Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Ingredients that keep love alive

Every relationship in this earth needs some great stand for surviving. Firm foundation is the right hand for maintaining a healthy relationship. That foundation is none other than love. Love is that great feeling that works as a strongest pillar in any relation. It is that strengthened power that can win over God heart also.

But alone love cannot do anything. To generate love is not a tough task but to assert it is important. Love is a feeling that pops up in heart and this is also equally true that surely there is some reason behind loving someone. Because it's impossible to stand without ground. If someone talks nicely with you then surely you will also do the same. Reason is quite general because other person is nice to you. Thus it is clear that love also needs some ingredients for the continuation.

Without any doubt it is true that love is very essential element of every relation. And here we are going to talk on the same subject but about its different angle. Here I will discuss with you about the requisites needed in love in accordance to me. These essentials applies to all love relationships. According to me respect is the foremost prerequisite of love. Love becomes eternal only if repect is there among people. Be it is relation of father and mother, father and child,mother and child, between sisters or brothers, among friends, lovers, teacher and student etc, every relation is based on it to a much greater extent. Imagine your relation without respect and you will get the answer.

Second most important thing is understanding. It is also one of the most important touchstones of love. As we water plant for its survival, in the same way understanding is the food of love. Your relation can be very fruitful if you understand each other and vice versa. Compromise is a greatest helping hand of understanding. If on some things one person compromises while on others the other person, then just think how smoothly will the relationship go. Simply to be with each other does not make a relation until there is a home of understanding in it.

Third important thing according to me is care, which do come reflexively if you really love someone. Thus care is the determinant as well as good for maintaining love. When you show care towards someone good feelings generate at a very faster pace in his or her heart. For keeping the love alive care plays a very important role.

Fourth important thing, which applies mostly to lovers is emotion. Emotion is a feeling that keeps craze on the ball always. However strong love relation is, but if there is no emotion that relation can never live long. Emotion is the basic root of love. Thus it's clear that stronger the emotion is, strongest will be the love life.

Though these four ingredients look very small like mustard seeds and are very common though, but if implemented seriously play a very important role for living a happy love life. In fact evey relation becomes strong if they are followed earnestly. Believe me and live a happy life with your loved ones.