FIGHT- Directly or Inversely proportional to love?

Fight! Is it good or bad for a relationship? You will be wondering what type of question is this? Definitely fights are injurious not only for relation but also for health. I do agree with it but not completely.

Fights are good and bad both for relation in a ratio of 50-50. Sometimes fights work as a great clincher because many understand the importance of each other in their lives after fights only. Fights are good to an extent in a relationship. In fact they are must and good for more strong building of relation. They work mostly for love relations. Though many lovers break due to fights, which is due to the result of misunderstanding, decreasing love etc. For other relations also fights are fruitful but its real sweetness can be felt in between lovers only.

How good it feels when your loved ones gets angry if you are talking with someone in opposite sex or if you are leaving for 10 to 15 days for your native place or waiting for you since last three hours and you are late and so on many other small things. That time you come to know your importance in other's life. It makes you feel how much you are important for someone, may be even more than parents. And then you never repeat those mistakes again. It also brings people more closer, as their absence for few days or hours or minutes makes clear that you are incomplete without him or her.

But at the same time fights have a bad side too. Much fights are also not good. If they occur very frequently it can be very dicey for relation. Fights are good till they do not make roots in relationship. Reason for fights also matters a most in finding out whether relation is strong or not? If you are doubting your lover for his or her talking with opposite sex friend without knowing their actual relationship or if you are fighting on the subject that you have already discussed before or if your mood is off due to certain thing and you do not want to talk with anyone but your love is unaware of it and started teasing you as ususal but you started fight due to your bad mood etc, if on such things fight is happeining, it's really bad, even worse.

Temperament, way of fighting, language, etc decides decency grade, which should be up to the mark. In short if you see all these things depend on commonsense, like in what way you are taking things, personal apprehension between the two, how much love is in relation, commitment in relationship and so forth. Thus here is a small piece of advice for those who are really serious for each other that do fight but in limits. Don't make fights habit in your relation. Many lovers are find saying that oh we fight a lot but still we are together. No, it's actually not good. Whatever the way is, but you cannot neglect the fact that actually it is fight. Thus keep them as much minimal and light you can.

As much small and funny will be the fight more stronger the relation will be. But yes, at the same time don't miss its flavor.