Friday, January 9, 2009

Right ways of loving

Love is an inexpressible feeling, which does not have words for the explanation. Things happened in it are isolated from all the affairs of the world. You can even say it is the most amazing emotion ever felt by anyone. In love people completely bent for the other person without thinking bringing ego into front. It is a selfless emotional attachment you feel for someone you really love with true heart.

As universal things does not change ever and are constant for the lifetime, similarly if your love is true for your beloved, then your way of loving of them will be same as per described by great lovers. Main guide of loving someone is same in all the love affairs. Way of loving can be different in different relations but that innermost feeling that defines love is same in all the cases. Here are mentioned some guidelines that tells about right ways of loving. If love is really true these emotions will definitely be there in the relationship. Here it goes:

First important one is the phrase that lovers usually say to each other i.e. 'I LOVE YOU'. It is said if you frequently say it love increases by zillion times. That's quite true also because it gives security as well as makes him or her feel good. But just saying is not enough most important is to feel it. Lovers who say it with a feel make everlasting relationship. They can do anything for their beloved and that's what true love is all about and this is one of the most significant ways also.

Second essential is to understand your darling. Rather than expecting from others true lover tries to understand by him or her. You should know what they feel, what is their thinking, how they cope up with things and all such small things. No one should understand your lover more than you. Thus center point if empathize.

Unconditional love live longest. Keeping expectations shows you have some reason for loving that person but in true love people do not expect anything. Accepting person as they are is the sign of true love and right way of loving also. That person should come as a sweet experience of your life rather than the one fulfilling your desires. Love someone just for the sake of love. Everybody has different ways of expressing love, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

One of the right ways of loving is to realize from time to time that you can even miss your beloved. If this thought puzzles you it means you have great appreciation for your love. Those people are very lucky who can sense this feeling.

If you come across anyone of the above ways of loving be happy it means you are really in love.