Ingredients that keep love alive

Every relationship in this earth needs some great stand for surviving. Firm foundation is the right hand for maintaining a healthy relationship. That foundation is none other than love. Love is that great feeling that works as a strongest pillar in any relation. It is that strengthened power that can win over God heart also.

But alone love cannot do anything. To generate love is not a tough task but to assert it is important. Love is a feeling that pops up in heart and this is also equally true that surely there is some reason behind loving someone. Because it's impossible to stand without ground. If someone talks nicely with you then surely you will also do the same. Reason is quite general because other person is nice to you. Thus it is clear that love also needs some ingredients for the continuation.

Without any doubt it is true that love is very essential element of every relation. And here we are going to talk on the same subject but about its different angle. Here I will discuss with you about the requisites needed in love in accordance to me. These essentials applies to all love relationships. According to me respect is the foremost prerequisite of love. Love becomes eternal only if repect is there among people. Be it is relation of father and mother, father and child,mother and child, between sisters or brothers, among friends, lovers, teacher and student etc, every relation is based on it to a much greater extent. Imagine your relation without respect and you will get the answer.

Second most important thing is understanding. It is also one of the most important touchstones of love. As we water plant for its survival, in the same way understanding is the food of love. Your relation can be very fruitful if you understand each other and vice versa. Compromise is a greatest helping hand of understanding. If on some things one person compromises while on others the other person, then just think how smoothly will the relationship go. Simply to be with each other does not make a relation until there is a home of understanding in it.

Third important thing according to me is care, which do come reflexively if you really love someone. Thus care is the determinant as well as good for maintaining love. When you show care towards someone good feelings generate at a very faster pace in his or her heart. For keeping the love alive care plays a very important role.

Fourth important thing, which applies mostly to lovers is emotion. Emotion is a feeling that keeps craze on the ball always. However strong love relation is, but if there is no emotion that relation can never live long. Emotion is the basic root of love. Thus it's clear that stronger the emotion is, strongest will be the love life.

Though these four ingredients look very small like mustard seeds and are very common though, but if implemented seriously play a very important role for living a happy love life. In fact evey relation becomes strong if they are followed earnestly. Believe me and live a happy life with your loved ones.

Love is a basic need of everybody's life. Survival without it is very hard. But most important thing is do we know for what it actually stands for? Means do we know its actual meaning? Topic we are going to discuss here is centuries old. So many minds have come up with their own personal definitions regarding it but till now no specific clarity of outline is approved. Here this is my merely a small effort to express it in my own way. Hope you all will agree to it. That topic is none other than a most exclusive one i.e. 'what is love'.

Love is defined in many different ways by great philosophers, general people etc., but I personally feel it is only a pious feeling for the other person or a group of persons. The reason behind my feeling so is that till you will not have clean and clear heart for the person how can you love him or her? For loving someone your positive attitude towards them held great importance. Definitely respect and understanding is equally important but they also come only if you have pure feeling between each other.

This I do not feel only with regard to romantic love. It can be between child and a mother, father and child, between siblings, between two or more friends or between lovers, it applies to all. Have you ever deeply thought why fights occur, why love relations becomes envy, why child goes away from parents etc,. it all happens when bad thoughts overcome love. Thus piousness is very important in every relation for maintaining love. No matter how you feel it, but when you will go deep in its meaning surely you will find this one of the right ones.

There is a thin line of difference between love and lust. Many never come to know about this difference and end up in a disastrous relationship later. And it happens when they come to know about other person's real nature later and all good feelings shatters in them. It tells that you have loved person just on physical appearances and not on what he or she is from inside. When you truly love someone this piousness remains forever. Hence piousness is a great determiner of every relationship.

Thus for feeling this ultimate feeling, which is defined equals to God, for sharing your joy and sorrow with your loved ones, for asserting understanding keep your heart clean and sure enough you will have a strengthened relationship.