Thursday, December 25, 2008

Best friend as a good lover and vice-versa


Love and Friendship are two beautiful aspects of life and one who is endowed with both is the luckiest one. And getting both in one person is a more lucky thing. Mostly in everybody's life bestfriend and lover are different. But here we will discuss how it is to have a good lover in best friend and viceversa?

There is a great difference between lover and bestfriend. Lover is the one who is going to be with you for the entire life. Your life's each and every moment will pass with him or her. They are your soulmate. You can share your every problem with them as they are your family. Bestfriend is the one with whom you can share your joy and sorrow but to a certain extent. They are little farthest than lover but still possess a great importance in your life. I personally feel people who get a good lover in their bestfriend are more lucky than the ones who get good friend in lover.

In very rare cases only people get bestfriend as a good lover and viceversa. Bestfriend shares your every secret however bitter it is and give you suggestions accordingly. You know that he or she is there for you to give the right guidance. But with lover you hide few things in order to prevail sanctity in your relation. Lover can take it personally and become angry because they love you but bestfriend will take it in a broader perspective. Possessiveness is another reason which makes difference between lover and bestfriend.

Lover as a bestfriend will make your life happy but bestfriend as a good lover can make your life smooth. Getting any one of these two is a matter of luck. Though in practical world of today it's very hard to get good lover and good friend in one person because lover cannot understand your every thing in the way friend do and friend cannot come close to you in every sens as a lover. But still nothing is impossible. Be positive for everything who knows when what magic will happen.

Though it sounds like saying that your life partner one who is your wife or husband is not necessarily your bestfriend. How awkward it sounds but it is true in many cases. Thus this article says that getting a good lover in bestfriend and vice versa is a very lucky thing but if you don'e get so then also don't take it as a bad luck. Even finding one amongst the two is also a occuring by chance thus worship it as a God.

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